I am a writer, a wife, a mother, a grandmother, and a woman who is still discovering what she wants the next part of her life to look like.
For many years, so much of my story was connected to what happened when I had a stroke at the age of 50. My life changed in an instant. I lost much of my ability to read, write, speak, and understand language, and finding my way back took years.
But somewhere along the way, my story began changing again. I was no longer only rebuilding the life I had before. I started thinking more about the life still in front of me and what I wanted to do with it.
Rewrite Your Life With Denise began with my stroke story. Writing gave me a place to talk about the things people could not always see, including the frustration, the setbacks, the small victories, and what it was really like to rebuild after life suddenly changed.
As I changed, my writing changed too.
I began writing more about curiosity, confidence, trying new things, going places alone, dreams I had put away, and the things I still wanted to learn. I also kept coming back to one question: If not now, then when?
That was when I realized this website was becoming about more than stroke recovery. It was becoming about life and what can happen when we begin paying attention to what we still want.
These days, I notice things I might once have overlooked. A walk outside. A sunrise with a cup of coffee. An idea I cannot stop thinking about. The excitement of learning something new. The feeling that comes when I realize I am capable of doing something I once would have been afraid to try.
I am learning that growing older does not mean becoming finished. There are still things I want to experience, places I want to go, words I want to write, and parts of myself I have not met yet.
Stroke recovery will always be part of my story, and if you are new here, you can read more about that on My Story. But this space has grown beyond that.
Here, I write about change, growing older, finding confidence, trying new things, relationships, ordinary moments, dreams that refuse to disappear, and the questions that sometimes arrive when life gets quiet enough for us to hear them.
I do not have everything figured out. Much of it becomes clearer while I write.
At the same time, I am also working toward publishing my memoir, Every Story Deserves a Second Chapter, and beginning to imagine where my writing, spoken words, workshops, and other creative ideas might lead next.
For a long time, I spent a lot of energy looking back at the life that changed.
Now I find myself much more interested in looking forward.
And I have a feeling there are still quite a few chapters left to write.

